Wealth Success Love

A woman came out of her house and saw 3 old men with long white beards sitting in her front yard. She did not recognize them. She said 'I don't think I know you, but you must be hungry. Please come in and have something to eat.'
'Is the man of the house home?', they asked.
'No', she replied. 'He's out.'
'Then we cannot come in', they replied.
In the evening when her husband came home, she told him what had happened.
'Go tell them I am home and invite them in!'
The woman went out and invited the men in'
'We do not go into a House together,' they replied.
'Why is that?' she asked.
One of the old men explained: 'His name is Wealth,' he said pointing to one of his friends, and said pointing to another one, 'He is Success, and I am Love.' Then he added, 'Now go in and discuss with your husband which one of us you want in your home.'
The woman went in and told her husband what was said. Her husband was overjoyed. 'How nice!!', he said. 'Since that is the case, let us invite Wealth. Let him come and fill our home with wealth!'
His wife disagreed. 'My dear, why don't we invite Success?'
Their daughter-in- law was listening from the other corner of the house. She jumped in with her own suggestion: 'Would it not be better to invite Love? Our home will then be filled with love!'
'Let us heed our daughter-in- law's advice,' said the husband to his wife.
'Go out and invite Love to be our guest.'
The woman went out and asked the 3 old men, 'Which one of you is Love? Please come in and be our guest.'
Love got up and started walking toward the house. The other 2 also got up and followed him. Surprised, the lady asked Wealth and Success: 'I only invited Love, Why are you coming in?'
The old men replied together: 'If you had invited Wealth or Success, the other two of us would've stayed out, but since you invited Love, wherever He goes, we go with him. Wherever there is Love, there is also Wealth and Success!!!!! !'

MY WISH FOR YOU...

-Where there is pain, I wish you peace and mercy.
-Where there is self-doubting, I wish you a renewed confidence in your ability to work through it.
-Where there is tiredness, or exhaustion, I wish you understanding, patience, and renewed strength.
-Where there is fear, I wish you love, and courage.

30 November 2008

Yi wei yi qie hen mei hao...
Yuan lai ye shi yi chang meng...
Wo hai neng xiang xing tong hua li de gu shi ma?
Bu yao zai xian ru meng jing...
Gai qing xing le...
Wo bu yao wei ni er huo...
Wei zi ji er huo...

29 November 2008

At last i had finished the slide show of mine...
It tells the stories of mine at Prudential...
4 years already...
Happiness is more than everything...
May more '4 years' coming...

Why Do We Shout?

One day, a professor asked his students 'Why do we SHOUT instead of speak when we are ANGRY?'
All the students thought for a while. One answered 'Because we lost our cool. That's why we SHOUT.'
Asked the professor again, 'But the person is just right next to you, why can't we talk softly but have to SHOUT?'
Everyone gave their opinions but none was accepted by the professor.
Lastly explained by the professor 'When we are ANGRY, our hearts drift apart. To mask the DISTANCE we felt, we instinctively SHOUT instead of speak so the other party can hear us.'
'But as we SHOUT, we get ANGRIER. And we felt we drift apart further. So we SHOUT even louder...'
'It is the opposite when we are in love. Not only we do not shout, we whisper into each other ears. Why?'
'This is because our hearts are very close, almost never apart. As our love deepen, we reach a state of communication where there is no need for words.'
'We understand each other well enough just by exchanging look,' concluded the professor.
'Therefore, when we are arguing, DO NOT speak words that will make our hearts drift apart. WAIT a few days. When you feel your hearts are no longer far apart, pick up the conversation and continue from there.

26 November 2008 - 28 November 2008

Ta hao xiang zheng de xue hui zhu dong le...
Wo hen kai xin...
Ji tian li dou shi ta de ying zi...
Di san ci de yue hui ne?

25 November 2008

Bu xiao xin bei ta fa xian le...
You yao zhao jie kou...
Xi wang yi qie shun shun li li...

24 November 2008

Feng ping lang jing de yi tian...
Jue de qing shong duo le...
Xi wang yi qie dou hen mei hao...

23 November 2008

Zhuo le yi jian ling wo hen hou hui de shi...
Zhu dong le...
Que you hai pa le...
Mei gan jue le...
Xi wang ta ye shi...
Ta jia bie wu hui...
Wo men shi peng you er yi...

22 November 2008

'Shao San Juin' zhang le wo de shi jian...
You huang xiao, lei shui, gan dong...
Ming ju : '笑口常開﹐好彩自然來'...

21 November 2008

Shou dao ta de zao an...
Hen hao...
You jing bu...
Yue le peng you...
Deng le hen jiu...
Bu shi gu yi...
Yuan liang le...

Nice Article

一個人生活&兩個人生活 = 兩個自由的人因愛結合而產生的所謂『摩擦』
星期日,一覺睡到下午2點還不願起床,我在旁邊叫喚他。
「起床了好不好？我們出去走走,去吃東西。」N遍之後,他仍在睡。
我下樓去,走到公園時,打了他手機,我想,這下,他不得不起床了吧？
響了好幾聲,他終於接了電話,只是他告訴我的是:「妳讓我過我自己想過的生活好不好？」
突然間,我不知該如何回應,倖倖然掛上電話後,一個人坐在公園裡,有點茫然有點不知所措,那麼我自己的生活又是什麼呢？
一個人的時候過自己的生活,兩個人的時候也各自過生活？？
肚子餓了是唯一明確的方向,我漫步到肯德雞,點了餐,端了餐盤往樓上走,三三兩兩的人群,小孩的吵鬧聲在我耳邊沸騰著,我沒有感覺到煩燥,反而覺得這種人氣很好,我安靜的吃我的炸雞看我的報紙,四週喧嚷的小孩聲壓過了我心裡悲傷的低鳴聲,近日來,就情緒上來說,我並不太快樂,我需要注入一些快樂的聲音在我的心房。
一個小時後,我離開肯德基並外帶了一份餐,在往回家路上走著時,我重新思考著過自己生活的事情,我可以當作我是一個人生活,一個吃飽一個人散步一個人回家去嗎？？
我不會,也不行,我可以一個人吃飯、一個人散步,可是我不會忘了要買一份食物給在家裡的家人,一個人的生活裡其實包含了兩個人。
婚姻裡,有一個很難的部份就是,你不明白什麼時候該一個人,什麼時候又該兩個人？
而女人卻會自然而然的照料跟妳一起生活的人,也許妳照顧不了他的心情,可是妳會顧及他的溫飽。
想著想著,就走到了家門口,我站在門口,有鑰匙卻沒有開門,我按了門鈴,他開了門....
「先生,請問你有沒有叫肯德基外帶全家餐？」我站在門口對他說。
他對我笑而不答。「沒有嗎？我送錯了啊？？」我笑。
他把東西接過手,牽著我的手進了家門。
晚上,他居然帶我去逛了夜市耶,這是一件非常難得的事,因為他超討厭逛夜市,而且,他很有耐心陪我一條一條的逛著,臉上沒有一絲不耐煩。
我想,他明白這是我一個人生活時愛做的事,二個人生活時也希望可以做的事。
如果相遇,你會感到相知,那麼,有一種習慣-叫做陪伴。
如果陪伴,你會感到珍惜,那麼,有一種甜蜜-叫做存在。
如果存在,你會感到壓力,那麼,有一種善良-叫做 離開。
如果離開,你會感到輕鬆,那麼,有一種勇敢-叫做放棄。
忙的時候,想要休息;
渡假的時候,想到未來。
窮的時候,渴望富有;生活安逸了,怕幸福不能長久。
決定的時候,擔心結果不如預期;
看明白了,後悔當初沒有下定決心
不屬於自己的,常常心存慾望;
握在手裡了,又懷念未擁有前的輕鬆
「生命若不是現在,那是何時？」
珍惜現在的友誼,珍惜你所愛的人.因為,很可能在下一秒鐘這些都將不復存,不要只留下自己為沒有珍惜過嘆息,為沒有珍惜過而生自己的氣.因為那為時已晚....

20 November 2008

Gan jue ta hen lei...
Xu yao xiu xi le ba...
Dan yuan ta kai kai xin xin...
Jian chi dao di...

16 November 2008 - 19 November 2008

Zhe ji tian dou shi ta de duan xun...
Cha bu duo yi tian liang feng...
Zhao shang yi feng...
Wan shang yi feng...
Shi tian de lor...
Wo xiang wo men shi hao peng you...

Superstar Gemini - Part 4